What Is a Contested Divorce?

A divorce becomes contested when spouses cannot agree on one or more issues that must be resolved before the divorce can be finalized. Contested divorces can become messy and expensive, especially if the case goes to court. Whatever your goal is in your divorce, O’Flaherty Law will pursue it aggressively.

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What Makes a Divorce “High Conflict”?

A high-conflict divorce generally involves more than a simple disagreement between you and your spouse.

Communication may have broken down significantly, disputes may repeatedly escalate, or you and your spouse may take positions that make reaching an agreement particularly difficult.

High conflict does not necessarily mean that every issue must be litigated.

Identifying the most important disputed issues early can help create a more focused strategy for resolving the case.

Signs a Divorce May Become High Conflict

  • Constant disputes
  • Communication breakdowns
  • Parenting disagreements
  • Financial concerns
  • Repeated court involvement
  • Difficulty reaching compromise

Issues That Commonly Lead to Contested Divorces

Property and Debt Division

Disputes over whether property is marital or nonmarital, asset division, and how property and debts should be allocated.

Parenting Time

Disagreements about where children will spend their time: weekdays, weekends, and holidays.

Parent Decision- Making

Issues concerning a child’s education, health, religion, and extracurricular activities.

Child Support

Income calculations, additional child-related expenses, health insurance, and childcare costs.

Business and Complex Assets

Significant assets can create valuation and division issues requiring investigation.

Spousal Maintenance

Disputes whether maintenance should be awarded, for how long, and how much.

Contested Doesn’t Always Mean Going to Trial

Filing a contested divorce does not automatically mean that your case will end with a judge deciding every issue.

Illinois law expressly permits spouses to resolve issues through written agreements, including matters involving property, maintenance, support, and parental responsibilities.

Even cases that begin with substantial disagreement can eventually be resolved through negotiation or other settlement efforts.

When the parties cannot resolve certain issues, the court can decide the remaining disputes.

Resolution May Involve

  • Attorney-to-attorney negotiations
  • Exchange of settlement proposals
  • Mediation
  • Agreements on individual issues
  • Pretrial conferences
  • Court-assisted settlement discussions
  • A negotiated marital settlement agreement

What Happens During a Contested Divorce?

1

Filling the Divorce Case

One spouse files a petition for dissolution of marriage, and the other spouse has an opportunity to respond.
2

Temporary Issues

Certain financial, parenting, or property issues may need to be addressed while the divorce is pending.
3

Financial Disclosure and Discovery

The parties exchange information and may use formal discovery to obtain financial records and other evidence.
4

Parenting Issues

When children are involved, parenting plans, parenting time, and decision-making responsibilities may need to be negotiated or presented to the court.
5

Negotiation or Mediation

The parties and their attorneys may continue working toward agreements as information becomes available and disputed issues become clearer.
6

Pretrial Proceedings

The court may address unresolved issues, deadlines, discovery disputes, and preparations for trial.
7

Trial and Final Judgment

If disputes remain, evidence and testimony can be presented to the judge, who will decide the unresolved issues and enter a final judgment.